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Monday, August 16, 2010 @ 5:55 PM
Well...
Idk what to say about today... Alright, I know you all are angry and frustrated now... But do hear me out before you close the window. Before anything, I want to say that no one is right and no one is wrong today. Idk about the others but this is how I feel. I don't want to also talk about those attitude problem or whatever that they had said just now. I just want to say that I understand the fact that we are debaters. It is impossible for us to not speak our minds, but before you say anything, or before you do anything, think about the consequences and the people around you who will be affected. Maybe you all might say this is our freedom to say or do anything we want, but think about it this way. We are one big family, and by thinking of others before you do or say anything, is showing respect to one another. I am sure everyone wants to be treated with respect. Also, I also understand that many of us is unhappy because of the frustration everyone is venting on us. But think again, we need to understand that everyone has feelings, and many of us can't control our feelings. Everyone had a long day before this, and we will sure to get frustrated over things. But learn to care for each other's feelings, only when we know how to care for one another, can teamwork really work. And debate is about teamwork isn't it? I also understand that you all do feel very stressed up by the things we have to do and prepare. But 'no pain, no gain.' Everyone have to put in effort in order for things to work out, and this is teamwork. Also, I can understand that some of us is 'accused' of being not serious when we joke around. I understand that you all will be very unhappy after that, and the atmosphere will be so awkward if there is practically no jokes at all. But sometimes, we just have to understand that we need to get things done. But if you really feel very upset or unhappy about things that happened in debate, feel free to thrash things out, because only by speaking our minds, can we really solve the problem. Everyone has different opinions on something, and by sharing your opinions, it will help others to understand how you feel, and communication is very important for a cca to work. Also, when you feel very frustrated over anything about debate, just think of the fun times we shared, and you can solve the problem! :D Alright, I know I am very naggy, but this is basically what I thought of during my way back home. Hope this will help in sorting out your thoughts. :D Also, if any of you wants to quit debate, please give it a second thought, because we love you guys lots! :D And... I really think that no one is right or wrong today. It is just a matter of different opinions. :D Cheer up! Come to debate with a positive mindset and you will have fun! :D -HuiQi :) |
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ONE LITTLE TWO LITTLE THREE LITTLE BANG-STERS,
